Tuesday, December 30, 2014

November-December 2014 BookClub


Book: Middlessex  Author:
Hostess: November Carla Gibb/December Laura Madden
Rating: 4.39

Guest Reviewer for Middlesex: Laura Madden. The book rated a 4.39 from the 7 members who completed it. January's book is "All the Light We Cannot See" - January 9 at  Pam Boeck's house.

I waited to write November’s blog until we had finished the book club discussion of Middlesex. The book was big enough and, with the holidays, we decided to make it a two month discussion. However, as often happens, we weren’t all at the same place in the book so the discussion in November stalled a bit. Also, I was jet lagged from my recent trip and asked Laura to write the review of the book. Thanks, Laura!

Carla G hosted our November book club and the food was wonderful as always. She provided smoked turkey and brisket. There were deviled eggs, potato casserole, and salad. Diana made Vodka Cranberry Kiss cocktails and we had our usual assortment of fine wines, coffee and tea. Liz brought her bacon wrapped green beans, always a big hit. Arnora brought tomatoes with melted cheese and we had stuffing.  It was truly a great night with us all gathered around the table.

Our Christmas tradition has become a sleepover at Laura’s. Her recently finished patio was a treat with its pergola and fire pit for late night chats. We were only missing Denise, who was recovering from surgery, and Tammy. Tammy hopes to join us in January before going back out on the boat.

We had a lot of travels and big news in December. Since Thanksgiving, Lis has been to India. Diana and I had our much anticipated trip to Italy. Darby announced she’s moved up her wedding date (this blog stays in book club), Barb has decided on a local location for her wedding in October. Carla G is going to renew her wedding vows in Las Vegas this year. It is “The Year of the Book Club Brides”. Laura decided on a Greek theme for our Christmas meal.  The food was great – and pictured here.

Laura was afraid that her review of Middlesex was too long. But, it was an epic story, so I’m going to include it in its entirety. Thanks, Laura!

Middlesex by Jeffrey Eugenides won the Pulitzer Prize in 2002. It is a story of gender identity, cultural identity and three generations of struggle with fate vs. chance or perhaps destiny vs. free will.  The timeline in the narrative jumps around through three generations of a Greek family that migrates to Detroit.  The epic story gradually unfolds and we learn bits of information through a non-linear storytelling style.  Some in the group did not like this aspect of the narrative. 

The gender identity issue is traced back to a genetic mutation of the brother/sister Greek immigrants, Lefty and Desdemona Stephanides, as they created a new past and new future for themselves when they fled war-torn Smyrna.  They broke all social and moral taboos by deciding to give in to the convenience of their desire for each other and get married. It was only after they had conceived a child that Desdemona realized that they had truly tempted fate.  She feared that their indiscretion might actually bring about some sort of tragedy with their offspring.

The narrative takes us through cultural identity issues beginning with new immigrants assimilating into an industrialized Detroit and navigating through the depression, prohibition, World War II, Race Riots, socio-economic profiling, and finally economic success and down falls.  This aspect brought about some great discussion from Darby as she has been to Detroit and has witnessed some of the cultural and economic issues facing that city. Indeed, this could be the story of any family in America following the American Dream– except for that genetic mutation on the 5th Chromosome!! Desdemona and Lefty moved in with a cousin who also came from Smyrna.  Was it fate or chance that these cousins conceived children on the same night and that those children would grow up to repeat the family history?  Fate was tempted again when Milton fell in love with his second cousin Tessie.  This union of cousins had Desdemona again worrying about the genetic legacy of her indiscretion. 

Enter Calliope-- Desdemona and Lefty’s grandchild—offspring of cousins— born with “ambiguous genitalia” as a result in both parents sharing the same mutation on their 5th Chromosome. Was it chance or fate that an aging immigrant doctor attended the birth and the abnormality was completely undetected until puberty?  This childhood experience gives rise to a whole gender identity debate of nature vs. nurture.  Our group had some pretty profound discussion on this issue. And then we see this family again experiencing social and moral taboos when Calliope begins to be attracted to other girls. At that young age there was no specific discussion that it was wrong – although confused, Calliope felt different and kept these desires and sexual ambiguity a secret. Even after being interviewed by the gender specialist, Doctor Luce, Calliope continues to answer questions based on social norms, not true feelings.

Ultimately Calliope runs away after reading the patient records and begins living as the boy that his hormonal profile declared him to be.  When faced with the surgical option necessary to continue life as a girl, Cal adamantly chose to accept his body the way it was.  Again there was some lively discussion about choice in relation to gender identity. In the end, we get the idea that Cal was well adjusted in his body and after meeting Julie Kikuchi, it seems he will be able to have a relationship with the lights on!

In the end, I am glad to report that the end of the Hercules Hotdog legacy coincided with the revelation of how Chapter 11 got his name!!! And since Cal is living in Berlin, as an American Diplomat, I can conclude that the Stephanides’ American Dream is still alive, albeit re-envisioned, for this 3rd generation androgynous Greek immigrant.



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