sametimenextmonth: April Book Club 2012

Sunday, April 14, 2013

April Book Club 2012

April's meeting was held at Denise's house where I was thrilled to see Lauren still has her peregrine, Elaine. Before I moved house I was host to Lauren's birds and it was like seeing an old friend. Denise also regaled us with a funny story of how Lauren, a doctoral student working on her dissertation had to jump through some pretty serious hoops to get a job at the local Family Video store. Lauren will be at home for a while working on her paper while Cassie is studying in Heidelberg, Germany. Pam just got back from visiting Sam in LA and Nathan and Nassim are investigating possible transfer to Dubai. Diana's daughter and family are about to finish their new/old home renovation and that's just the stuff we heard about.

Congratulations to Barb who just passed her test in her health and wellness program and I recently took a job with a non-profit organization that works to economically empower women in Rwanda and Afghanistan. We missed Lou, Darby, Janie, Lis, and Carla G. That brings us up-to-date and to the food that you can see, from the photos, was delicious as always!

This month's book was British author, Caitlin Moran's "How to be a Woman." or more emphatically put, "HOW to be a WO MUN!!" The review said it was a "profane, witty and wonky" memoir. I believe we better described it as a "caustic, strident and mildly humorous, and yes, profane"series of essays describing her precarious journey walking the tightrope between being feminine and feminist.

I found the first half of the book difficult to listen to and almost quit on it. In the end, I am glad I did not. Her topics are by no means new but they are still very relevant. And very much worth revisiting in a time when so many of women's hard won freedoms are being challenged in the political arena.

Caitlin's voice, both literally and in her writing, is loud, brassy and like clanging symbols and banging drums. It sounded discordant, atonal to my ear like a piece of modern classical music.

However, as I neared the end of the book I realized that it is exactly these same kinds of voices that have given rise to the feminist movement over the years and effected change. Nice and quiet do not a revolution, or history, make.

Whatever you may think of feminism, and many women are against it, what it boils down to is "freedom to choose." Before the various waves of feminism effected change, women were considered property of their fathers and husbands. At the Council of Nicea, men who were deciding on the books of the Bible debated whether women even had souls. We could not access our own money, own or inherit property, and we had no choice over our reproductive systems.

Feminists, as a group, are often depicted negatively as "angry, man-hating, lesbians". Nothing could be further from the truth. But without their caustic, strident voices, we would not enjoy the freedoms we do. It has become painfully aware to me that our freedoms are precarious. Some states, as I write this, are passing laws that prohibit women from making choices about their own bodies and health, which in turn effects them not just emotionally but economically.

Someone asked the question if this "rant" was a gauntlet and a call to action. "If so, what does she want us to do?"

I believe her intent was to stir us up, piss us off, awaken us to the dangers that are possible for us and our future daughters if we are complacent.

Join NOW or at least get on the newsletter or Facebook page. Read Ms. Magazine, watch the legislation that is going before the courts now and make your own voice heard.

Where would you and I be without the likes of Susan B. Anthony, Elizabeth Cady Stanton, Lucy Paul, Gloria Steinham and others who fought for the freedoms we enjoy today? And what legacy do we wish to leave future generations of women?

I'm glad I pushed through to the end and the book rated a 3.79.

Next months book is Before I go to Sleep by S. J. Watson at Barb's house.

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2015 Hosts and Books

Jan 9 - Pam Boeck - All the Light We Cannot See
Feb 6 - Lou Christian - Alif the Unseen
March 6 - Terry Cummings - Kind of Kin
April 3 - Janie Tisdale - The Girl on the Train
May 1 - Arnora Parish - The Stolen Child
Jun 5 - Barb Barrow - The Elephant Whisperer
July 10 - Diana Beal - Lone Wolf
Aug 7 - Denise McGough - The Storied Life of A.J. Fikry
Sept 11 - Sherrie Phillips - H is for Hawk
Oct 2 - Arnora Parish - The Boy Who Drew Monsters
Nov 6 - Sherrie Phillips
Dec - Laura Madden - A Child's Christmas in Wales & Christmas Day in the Morning

The Honey Tree - Mary Oliver

And so at last I climbed

the honey tree, ate

chunks of pure light, ate

the bodies of bees that could not

get out of my way, ate

the dark hair of the leaves,

the rippling bark,

the heartwood. Such

frenzy! But joy does that,

I'm told, in the beginning.

Later, maybe,

I'll come here only

sometimes and with a

middling hunger. But now

I climb like a snake

I clamber like a bear to

the nuzzling place, to the light

salvaged by the thighs

of bees and racked up

in the body of the tree.

Oh, anyone can see

how I love myself at last!

how I love the world! climbing

by day or night

in the wind, in the leaves, kneeling

at the secret rip, the cords

of my body stretching

and singing in the

heaven of appetite.

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Lis and Diana's Review of Isaac's Storm

Lis said: This book centers around the devastating hurricane that hit Galveston, Texas, in 1901 and is blamed for the death of over 4500 people. Although the story wasn't a page-turner for most, it was full of interesting historical and scientific data while building up to describing accounts of the devastation and aftermath that the storm created. In my opinion, it is debatable whether the book should be considered a true fiction or a non-fiction. Hand in hand with the storm description, the book tells about the creation of the National Weather Service and the struggle that the organization went through to earn the people's trust. When looking back over the disaster, the author identifies areas of misuse and false pride - in the bureaucratic sector as well as the people's personal lives - that, if it had been overcome, might have averted some of the lost lives. Building up to the storm, the author touches on many historical facts surrounding the era, such as the state of Arkansas passing legislation a few decades earlier to legalize the proper pronunciation of its name to be "Arkansaw." Into this background, the author creates the characters that he was able to find in his research that made up the early Weather Service and some of the residence of Galveston, their spouses and children, making us shiver with dread over successful and unsuccessful rescue efforts. After bringing to life the unimaginable aftermath, with whole neighborhoods destroyed and bodies at every step, the book concludes with Galveston's recovery and a large chapter of Acknowledgements for the extensive support and research that the author relied on. I for one enjoyed the book immensely and, after the first third, found it difficult to put down till the end. Elisabeth Too many people put off something that brings them joy just because they haven't thought about it, don't have it on their schedule, didn't know it was coming or are too rigid to depart from their routine. I got to thinking one day about all those women on the Titanic who passed up dessert at dinner that fateful night in an effort to cut back. From then on, I've tried to be a little more flexible.

Diana said: The old saying, "hind sight is 20/20" comes to mind while reading the hurricane account of Galveston, Texas in 1901. Author Eric Larson's story reminded me of his first book we read, Devil in the White City, as he combined historical facts and real people while piecing together a plausible tale of personalities and lives. I have huge respect for writing historical fiction, as the writer not only has to devise an interesting story but also works as an investigator and researcher in the process. The first third of the story was slow and at times I found myself skimming the pages waiting for action. I think this may have been purposeful by Larson. As a reader I was going about my daily business and uninvolved like the townspeople of Galveston noting the changing winds and heading off to work. I took occasional notice of Isaac's trip to the American west by stage and his appearance as a "dandy", the use of telegraph as the primary form of communication from on location to another and it was surprising to find out the American and Cuban weather men held so little regard for each other. Americans found the Cuban forecasters primitive, romantic and unreliable. But once the hurricane was upon Galveston, I was spellbound for the remainder of the book. With the exception of once when I had to put the story down due to the brutal descriptions of decaying bodies which I found overwhelming. For me the story telling mimicked the event itself. Galveston and the rest of the U.S. were going along with business as usual, and then wham! A hurricane the magnitude no one expected or had experienced before bursts forth with action and drama and left no one untouched including me.

Lis' review of A Thousand Splendid Suns

The story playing in Afghanistan made it another compelling read and a walk through a different culture, very foreign to most of us. I had the fortune to have also read the book The Kite Runner by the same author and found that the two stories make great companion books, almost a must-read duo. Our month's selection takes us into the Arabic culture through the life of two women, one of them a servant girl's bastard child - and yes, I used the old fashioned term for illegitimate child on purpose to stay with the tone of the novel. The other woman is depicted as a well-educated, emancipated young woman from a progressive, westernized family. Through the turmoils surrounding Afghanistan's recent 30-year history, their lives intertwine with the same abusive husband and their attempt to deal with the changes brought on by the Russian occupation, the takeover of the Mujahedin and, eventually, the Taliban. The companion book, The Kite Runner, deals with the same political and social upheavals in Afghanistan but is told through the life of a man and his very devoted male servant. A Thousand Splendid Suns evoked a lot of emotion for most of us, feeling comfortable as well educated American women that have rights and can expect a certain social standing that greatly exceeds the animal-like treatment of our female Afghan counterparts under Taliban rule. Needless to say, we had a lively discussion about Afghanistan's troubles, the interactions of both women's parents' influences, their different upbringing, and how it made them relate to each other. We found similarities to the book Shanturam in this author's use of the cinema, especially Bollywood movies. One thing we did not discuss though that I found enticing, was the advantages of being able to skip hair and make-up treatments through the use of a Burka! Blue was, after all, the favored color of my youth, although I always preferred much darker shades. What do you think, ladies, Burkas in our future?

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Sunday, April 14, 2013

April Book Club 2012

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