Monday, December 16, 2013

December 2013 Christmas Book Club

December Book Club found us all, plus one, at Laura's on Sunday afternoon, December 15. Denise's friend, Karen, was visiting from the Phoenix area. It is truly, "One Amazing Thing" when we are all able to be at the same place at the same time. I believe Christmas 2010 was the last Christmas Book Club where we were all together.

Laura has now been in her new home just over a year and this is the 2nd time she has hosted book club. We were greeted by her beautiful Christmas decor, lighted taper candles on the table and the smells of some really great food! Laura provided us a main course of two fish; Salmon and Tilapia. There were two salads, Spanakopita, sweet potatoes, bread, potatoes au gratin, and a butternut squash and mushroom lasagna and Darby's baked fudge.

After dinner but before book discussion we exchanged our cards and gifts.Notable among our gift this year Carla Gibbs designed a Shelfari page just for book club. It includes all 142 books we've read and their ratings. It was suggested that we also place books here for future consideration. Everyone has access to the Shelfari page through Carla's log on and password. If you lose or forget it, contact Carla or me.

This month's book was "A Tale for the Time Being" by Ruth Ozeki. Here, I am going to post the description from the website. About half of the group was able to finish the book. And, while there was discussion, those that read it didn't want to ruin it for those who hadn't so they avoided talking certain specifics and the end. I will update this discussion in a month or so. Those that read it, with one exception, loved it! Diana enjoyed parts of it, but found other parts too painful and overall it wasn't her favorite. So far, for those who read the book, it rated 4.1.

A Tale for the Time Being

“A time being is someone who lives in time, and that means you, and me, and every one of us who is, or was, or ever will be…”

Man Booker Shortlist (logo)Spanning the planet from Tokyo’s Electric Town to Desolation Sound, British Columbia, and connected by the great Pacific gyres, A Tale for the Time Being tells the story of a diary washed ashore inside a Hello Kitty lunchbox and the profound effect it has on the woman who discovers it.


November 2013 Thanksgiving Book Club

This Thanksgiving had about half the group traveling elsewhere. Missing were
 Darby Johnsen, Carla Bachus Anderson, Sherrie Phillips, Barb Burk Barrow, and Janie Hudgins Tisdale. But those who were able to make it had a wonderful time, new home blessing, birthday and book club night at Pam and Dave's new home. Fortunately, no one had to learn new directions. Just went to the old house and looked across the street! 

Because I was one of the "travelers", this blog will be shorter than normal.  I have stolen Diana's notes from our Book Club Facebook Page.  

"One Amazing Thing" was well liked rating 3.78, and while many of us wished the author had given us a real ending, others in our group were fine with the ending, preferring to image that Uma and the others survived to live more stories. After reflecting on our discussion, I do think the author's ending was appropriate; it is possible the characters didn't survive and to close with that outcome would have been very sad. The author instead gives the reader the option to image either a fateful event albeit with reconciling relationships, or a promise of reconciliation with more to come.

December we meet at Laura's home and it is hoped that we can allow another change, meeting Sunday, the 15th at 5 p.m. instead of Saturday. The Blanchard football team is having a great season, and our hostess may have conflicts with Saturday but won't know until closer to the date. Please like if Sunday will work for you. We actually met last December on a Sunday and it was a good time for most as long as we knew in advance.

Enjoy the photos from book club. Sure hope we can all be together in December. 

Saturday, October 19, 2013

October Book Club 2013

October finds us celebrating book club and gorgeous fall weather at Carla Gibbs' home. The house is decked out in fall colors and we're ready for Halloween. The food was perfect for this time of year. Carla made two variations on chili: a vegetarian and chicken & navy bean. Side dishes were a salad and baked potato. Cheesecake along with a chocolate and Bundt cake rounded out the meal with our usual assortments of wines, tea and coffee. The atmosphere and was warm and cozy and the food was of the comfort variety.

In attempting to keep with a Halloween theme and also tagging off of last months book, we picked Murder on the Orient Express by Agatha Christie. In last months book, our heroine was reading an Agatha Christie novel  and spent time at the Club 21 in NYC.  Carla G discovered that, coincidentally, Club 21 is owned by a company called Orient Express. So it seemed meant to be. Agatha Christie is a prolific and well known  writer of murder mysteries. She published books between 1920 and 1976, the year she died. In biographical material I found she has sold 4 billion copies of her books and is 3rd in popularity only to Shakespeare and the Bible (in that order).
The book sparked quite a lively conversation in spite of the fact that most of us felt it was formulaic and lackluster. It rated a 3.3. For one thing, this particular book was published in 1936 and technology has come a long way since then. Most people are filled with sophisticated detective processes thanks to shows like NCIS and Law and Order, just to name a few. In Ms. Christie's books her detectives rely on more simple methods of deduction. And, trapped on the train, our intrepid detective, Hercule Poirot, does not have even the simplest of methods at his disposal. He is relying solely upon his keen methods of observation and his interrogation skills. I found Hercule quite comical - and someone did offer that they thought he was the inspiration for the comedic Pink Panther movies. As our story opens Hercule has just solved a murder and has boarded the train. Just as the murder happens the train is stuck in snowstorm.  And just as the mystery is solved, the train mysteriously jolts forward. The cast of characters ranks at an even dozen, which factors prominently in the story. At first, they seem like any random and odd assortment of travelers thrown together by circumstance. But our razor sharp Poirot soon learns that they are all connected in someway, even down to the trains porter, to an earlier kidnapping and murder of wealthy families child. This part of the story reminded me somewhat of the Lindbergh baby kidnapping. As in all of her mysteries the murder happens early and the story revolves around the figuring out, by process of elimination, which of the cast of characters committed the crime. This book has a twist ending with two possible scenarios; either none of them did it, a stranger enters & exits the train having committed the murder OR, they all did it. 

It really has a most humorous ending. The victim has been poisoned by his assistant and then one by one all 12 passengers come into his room and stab him as a symbolic act of the pain he has caused. He is the person responsible for the crime of kidnapping and murdering the child. He deserves to die. So Hercule decides to tell the police it was the stranger and lets all the others off the hook. The funniest part of the whole book to me is that such a famous and accurate detective was asleep in the next room while 12 people lined up in the hall and walked in and out of the room and stabbed a man 12 times.

The most interesting thing to me about Agatha Christie is that after 14 years of marriage, her first husband asked for a divorce. He was in love with a woman named Nancy Neele. When he left Agatha to spend the weekend with his mistress, Agatha staged her own disappearance. She left her car, with an expired license and some clothes in one location and no one could find her for 10 days, despite the fact that about 15,000 police and volunteers were looking for her. When she surfaced she was at a hotel registered as Mrs. Theresa "Neele". She did go onto have a long and loving marriage with her 2nd husband who was an archaeologist. He was 14 years her junior. Their travels gave her lots of material for future books and they were married 46 years and died two years apart in 1976 and 1978 respectively.

November's book club will be at Pam's new house. Location: directly across the street from the old house. Our book is "One Amazing Thing."



Sunday, September 15, 2013

September 2013 Book Club

Illustration by Anthony Russo (Sunday Book Review)
Welcome to September's Book Club - hosted by Terry. What a night! Terry's backyard was so welcoming. We could smell the charcoal from the street and the Chimenae was glowing.  From our emails I had thought we were having a simple dinner. Terry's best loved Pear Salad, some bread, some dessert. But, knowing these women as I do, I should have known better! Carla A brought so many things I know I won't get them all. She brought roasted chicken in a light cream sauce with potatoes and carrots. The chicken just melted in your mouth. And she and Lou both brought asparagus, which figured promptly in the meals in our story. Terry grilled vegetables, fruit and shrimp for us. There was crab dip and chips and Janie brought two kinds of bread. Carla G topped off the meal with a dessert everyone has a different name for; chocolate and vanilla pudding with flour/butter/nut crust and topped with cool whip! Tea, 7 Deadly Zins and Two Buck Chuck Wines rounded out the evening. Last night were were missing Pam and Laura.


Our book was Rules of Civility, a first novel for Amor Towles. It is the story of a year in the life of Katey Kontent as she attempts to rise in the ranks of 1938's New York City and the accidental love triangle that changes her trajectory. We all agreed it was great writing; atmospheric and poetic. Laura (by email) said It was both character and geography driven and that it was "a slice of life in a city she loves." Every time I picked it up I felt I was transported into Katey's skin. His attention to detail added to the atmosphere of the story without being tiresome.



The epilogue comes first in this story. Katey has married and is in her late 50's when she and her husband stumble across a photographic exhibit of subway photos taken by Walker Evans and she sees two photographs of Tinker Grey. And then the story goes back in time and begins on the last day of 1937 as Katy and her friend Eve Ross meet handsome and well-to-do Tinker Grey at a not so fashionable NYC night spot.  Katey is a typist in NY law firm, Eve his her roommate. The two girls "subtly" vie for Tinker's attention and he seems happy to play along - until another "accident" changes everyones course.  In 1938 the "Roaring Twenties" have given way to The Great Depression.  America is in recovery and nearing the end of the Depression as we teeter on the edge of WWII. And this is where we find our cast of characters. 


A central theme in the book is that a chance encounter or cursory decision in one's twenties can shape one's course for decades to come. Do you think this is true to life? Were there casual encounters or decisions that you made, which in retrospect were watershed events? We had a really in depth discussion about this. As we talked we realized that you do have a certain amount of control over life in the decisions you make. Those decisions move your life in one direction. However, there are things that happen to us all the time; a stranger you meet and marry, an accident that maybe leaves you with injuries you didn't count on, a company closes, a relationship ends, etc. And there is a difference from events that influence your life as opposed to events that impact them. Those are two different words. Influence seems a softer word. A great teacher that influences your choice of career is different from a car accident that "impacts" you and forces a change upon you. And, I think both are true. 


It was a great discussion and we got deep! But that is the  beauty of our group. It's not a therapy session.  But great fiction always reflects back to us our emotions and often helps us work through some struggle we are having. And we do that in a safe and loving, non-judgmental environment. 

The book referenced several other authors. Darby and Terry recognized a portion as being based on a T. S. Eliot Poem - The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock. Agatha Christie's mysteries are mentioned and Amor Towles' writing is likened to Fitzgerald and Capote. The book rated a 4.53

Next month is hosted by Carla Gibbs and we chose to tag off this months book and picked an Agatha Christie; Murder on the Orient Express.  

In November we'll be reading a book recommended by Pam; One Amazing Thing by Chitra Divakaruni.  A Tale for the Time Being by Ruth Ozeki, recommended by Laura will be our December book. 
Book club dates will change to Saturdays for the next three months.

Below are two links: one to Walker Evans photos and the other is a history and photos of the 21 Club with the Lawn Jockeys.



https://www.google.com/search?q=walker+evans+subway+photos&rlz=1C1TSNP_enUS497US497&tbm=isch&tbo=u&source=univ&sa=X&ei=6AU2UomxMKmT2gXMjYDoAw&ved=0CC4QsAQ&biw=1366&bih=667&dpr=1


http://www.21club.com/web/onyc/history.jsp

Saturday, August 10, 2013

August 2013 Book Club

August Book Club at Lis' house. This August hasn't been as hot as some but we still opted for lighter fare. Macaroni, cornbread, and Quinoa salads were delicious. Lis made a squash casserole and sausages and stuff bread sandwiches. Carla A brought chocolates, spicy mango pieces and ice cream for dessert. We topped the night off with coffee and Baileys.

We had a few absentees: Carla G, Pam, Barb, Lou, and Denise. Darby and Terry left after dinner. They hadn't finished the book and didn't want the ending spoiled for them. That left, Lis, Diana, Carla A, Arnora, Janie and Laura to discuss The Unlikely Pilgrimage of Harold Fry.

Our discussion here will be strictly "a no spoiler alert".  The basic premise of the story revolves around a married, retired couple: Harold and Maureen (not Harold and Maude as Carla quipped). Living in the south of England, they have fallen into a deep rut of boredom and barely tolerating each other. They have a son that is estranged from the family and they blame each other. One day a letter shows up for Harold. A former female co-worker from 20 years in the past, Queenie, alerts Harold that she is dying in a hospice. Harold, not knowing really how to respond to this pronouncement Harold set off on a journey to save "Queenie". He believes if he delivers his letter in person he can save Queenie's life.  So, Harold sets off on a 600 mile journey in his yachting shoes with nothing but his debit card. The ensuing, unexpected and unlikely pilgrimage has unexpected results.

Laura said that is was difficult to keep in mind that Harold was not the narrator. It felt like a first person story. There were some tears in the room as we discussed Harold's journey, the people he met along the way, the memories that surfaced for him and his transformation. Maureen is at home going through her shock at Harold's decision. At first, she tries to hide the fact that Harold is gone to his friend and neighbor. Maureen begins to recognize her dependence on Harold as she realizes she tries to figure out things like how to pay the bills. This pilgrimage takes Maureen and Harold on parallel journeys of healing and self-discovery.

I had the unusual experience of reading Harold's story as my own sister was taking a pilgrimage on the El Camino de Santiago. I felt I was following a parallel path walking with both my sister and Harold. My sister  and her friend took 5 weeks to walk 500 miles from France through Spain. Some of her experiences were similar to Harold's. They met interesting and strange people, they used a lot of tape on their toes and they even met a gentleman named Harold from Germany who was in his 70's. He had blisters on his feet and his shoes were falling apart. She said it was truly a life changing experience.

Both my sister and Harold had the experience of lots of silence on the walk. Like a walking meditation.When the mind is quiet and there is nothing left for it to think about or figure out except putting one foot in front of the other - the most amazing memories and emotions surface. Laura was sad that she felt Harold was so broken at one point.  She was trying to figure out why he had to be so emotional broken. Several of us agreed that is where the healing starts. And coming out on the other side of that "dark night of the soul" is really where life begins.

Words that were used to describe this story: beautiful, original, poignant, poetic and moving. The book rated a 4.6 with a "it made my heart full" from Carla A. I think this is a book where words fail to convey the depth of feeling it evoked.










Monday, July 22, 2013

July Book Club 2013

Life After Life by Kate Atkinson 

We loveys of STNM took the time again in July to savor and chat about the month’s pick, Life After Life by Kate Atkinson. Janie welcomed us in her comfy home and booted husband and dogs out just to accommodate us, although we enjoyed rubbing on the dogs once they were “unbanned.” Sherrie was off glamorizing with business in Dallas, so I (Elisabeth) volunteered to guest-write again. I almost feel like J. K. Rowling – oh wait, she was a “ghost writer.” My bad. We missed her and all who couldn’t make it.

Anyway, the book got a thumbs up with a 4.15 rating, and it generated some interesting discussion about what life is and could be, how things might be different by the choices we make in life. What may cause a déjà vous, possibly a subliminal idea of previous lives? That is what happened to our heroin, Ursula Todd. In the story, she lives out several variations of her life, all of them ending in death and starting over at some earlier point when she makes a different decision. The book takes us through WW I, the roaring 20s, and the horrors of WW II.
Denise described the feeling the book gave her: disturbing. We wondered if living life over is better or just more of the same, is reincarnation a welcome opportunity of setting things right or a burden of choices and consequences. Horrible things might still happen but just in a different way. Laura was moved by the way the book talked about events that we know about but with detail and in-depth observations normally not captured; it inspired her to do more research on the material than any other book she has read.  The characters of Sylvie and Hugh, Ursula’s parents, changed very little throughout the different scenarios of Ursula’s choices, where Hugh was well liked and Sylvie disappointing as the years rolled by.  Looking at the way her life had gone, Sylvie may have been dispirited by life to change from a gentle-hearted young woman to a boxed-in member of ‘society as she understood it.’

The portrayal of Ursula’s experiences had Diana comment that they inspired the reader to think about his/her own mortality. Janie reflected on her heart attack and that one might live life differently if reminded of how fragile and easily lost it is. We agreed that the story and concept will stay with us for a long time. It is not the kind of book that is easily forgotten.

Planning ahead, Janie gave us some more updates on the possible road-trip book club get-away to Austin in the fall, to be hosted and guided by Rusty, Janie’s beautiful daughter, and may include a stay at the lovely vacation home of Janie’s friend – yes, she has connections in good places. Diana is finalizing travel plans to Ireland with Rex and Sherrie in September and received excited encouragement and shared experiences for the trip. 

Like always, the food was a delight and well picked for the hot summer evening. The table was laden with an array of salads, dips, breads, and chips. The evening was crowned with a make-your-own Ice Cream Sunday. Sadly, there was one casualty that resulted through the desperate trials of de-corking a promising bottle of Merlot: Janie’s second-string cork-screw was torn to pieces. To protect the parties involved, I shan’t name any names (Elisabeth) but will gladly add that the victim was replaced within days so Janie can be back in the business of enjoying her wine. And I, for one, discovered another advantage to screw-top wine bottles.



Wednesday, June 19, 2013

June 2013 Book Club Part II

IWe arrived at Denise's in stages throughout the late afternoon and early evening. She had offered her pool for those who desired. Some of us dipped our toes in the hot tub, a few fully submerged.  This was the first time we'd seen each other since the May book club and the May tornadoes. I can say the evening was highly emotionally charged. We were catching up on the events of the storms and where everyone was in the process of recovery. When telling the story of hearing Barb's voice on the phone after I had seen the damage done to the hospital I cried for the first time. I didn't even realize I had been holding that back.  There were lots of stories and lots of hugs. Barb got her car and computer replaced but it's going to be a while before Arnora is back in her home. And I think it's going to be some time before our nerves and equilibrium are restored.

The conversation about the storms started to wind down as we moved toward dinner. Denise brought in a very tasty veggie Pappa Murphy's pizza which was complemented by Lou and Pam's salads and topped by a brownie sundae. We also had "Ruby Red Spread" by Denise, fruit by Carla G and hummus & pita by Diana. It was also Janie's birthday. She got to wear the crown and had a candle on her brownie. She broke into more tears as the brownie was presented and we all sang Happy Birthday.

The emotions continued to run high throughout dinner as we went from tears to laughter (my favorite emotion). Pam to Carla, "What was it I told you that I forgot?" Carla to Pam, "Why are you asking me? I forgot!" I blurted out that I had "wroted" the June Blog Part 1. Pam announced she was on a rowing team but couldn't figure out if she was sitting port or starboard, which was probably funnier if you heard the whole thing.

And then we moved into the living room for our discussion and promptly about half the people in the room started to fall asleep! I think that was also a part of the healing taking place. We had reconnected, processed our fears and sadness, moved to food and laughter and then took a little nap before we started the discussion. Carla A said it felt like we had walked through the poppy fields in The Wizard of Oz (coincidentally, the poppy field came AFTER the tornado!)

However, we did manage to revive and discuss our book Old School by Tobias Wolfe. We picked this book because it was the Pioneer Libraries Big Read. I'll start off right by saying that the book was fairly well received and rated a 3.6. The consensus was that the book was not an epic tale but more a "slice of life" depicting our protagonists time at an all boy's Ivy League prep school. Every semester a different famous poet or author is invited to come and speak at the school. There is a contest among the students to submit a poem or story in the style of the visiting author. The winner of the contest is awarded a private audience with the published author. Robert Frost, Ayn Rand and Ernest Hemingway are the featured writers. Our protagonist submits work for all three but is not chosen until near the end of the book by Ernest Hemingway. Unfortunately, through a series of events, he has found another student's story from several years back that he resonates with. He rewrites the story changing only parts of the name and minor details. He is found out and expelled. Years later he reunites with his professor and is made privy to some important details about the day he was expelled.

Lou liked the book but wasn't thrilled with the ending. She thought he rushed the ending and she felt cheated of some important details and depth. There was a lot of discussion about whether or not he had a real grasp of the plagiarism he had committed. I pointed out that in high school, when students were writing their first papers, the majority of us went straight to the encyclopedia and copied portions verbatim. Of course, the papers were returned and we were instructed in how to use the research without copying it. It could be he knew what he was doing. It could be he didn't fully understand the implications.

Other issues this book touched on; racism, sexism and rich versus poor. The main character and his roommate were Jews but they hid that fact for fear of becoming social outcasts. It was an all boy's school. One of the professor's was more appalled that he had plagiarized a "girls" story. Our protagonist was not of the wealthy elite. He was at the school on scholarship which added to his desire to fit in.

And the root issue of the story is truth versus lies. Ernest Hemingway was always admonishing everyone to "write the truest sentence." But truth is subjective and malleable. Truth often changes with our perspective, as we see at the end of the story when the fuller story is revealed. Most of our story is told from the perspective of a student and it's years later as an adult that truth takes on a different meaning and depth.

Pam thought the main character seemed flat emotionally, disconnected.  Several of us agreed. Perhaps it because he was telling the story from the perspective of someone who was on the outside looking in.

Next month's book is "Life after Life" and will be at Janie's house. I will be looking for a guest blogger as I will be out of town on a work project.